How come all tops ‘use and abuse’ the butts of bottoms just like me?

How come all tops ‘use and abuse’ the butts of bottoms just like me?

I’m a 29-year-old gay man residing in California. What makes many tops assholes that are such? We have had an abundance of intimate lovers ranging in age, ethnicity, and expressed orientation that is sexual. But just what unites them is a broad callousness toward bottoms if not a pleasure within the knowledge they who get to “use and abuse” bottoms that it is. […]